Neff has been credited with conducting the first academic studies on self-compassion, which she developed an interest in during her final year of graduate school.[2] In 2003, she developed and validated the Self-compassion Scale (SCS), a 26-item instrument designed to measure self-compassion across three core components: self-kindness versus self-judgment, common humanity versus isolation, and mindfulness versus over-identification.[5][6] A 12-item short form of the scale was later developed and validated by Raes, Pommier, Neff, and Van Gucht in 2011.[5][7] Both versions of the scale are widely used in psychological research. Her research has drawn a distinction between self-compassion and self-esteem, arguing that self-compassion offers psychological benefits without the pitfalls associated with the pursuit of high self-esteem, such as narcissism and social comparison.[8]
Publications
Neff is the author of multiple books, including:
Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself, published by William Morrow
Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power and Thrive.[9]
Co-publications with Dr. Chris Germer:
The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook (Guilford, 2018)
Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program: A Guide for Professionals (2019)[10]
Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout: Tools to Help You Heal and Recharge When You're Wrung Out by Stress (2024).[11]
Together with Chris Germer, Neff developed the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program, an empirically supported training program in self-compassion.[10] The two co-founded the nonprofit Center for Mindful Self-Compassion, which offers self-compassion training in a variety of formats.[13] Neff also offers an online self-paced introductory course in self-compassion, which includes access to monthly events with expert guest speakers, drop-in mentor sessions, and other resources.[14]
Personal life
Neff was married to author Rupert Isaacson. Their son, Rowan, was diagnosed with autism at age three.[15] As of 2021, Neff and Isaacson are divorced.[16]
↑Raes, F., Pommier, E., Neff, K. D. and Van Gucht, D. (2011), Construction and factorial validation of a short form of the Self-Compassion Scale. Clinical Psychology & Psychotherapy, 18: 250–255.